I think women should be with people who make them feel emotionally safe. You don’t have to play hard to get. You don’t have to act unbothered. You don’t have to turn every emotion into anger or hustle just to survive. Most of these “strong woman” defense mechanisms only exist when you’re with someone who isn’t safe for you. Being a ‘lover girl’ is not weakness. It’s strength when you’re with the right person. The kind of person who makes it safe to be vulnerable. The kind who respects you emotio